90-Day Planning for Women in Business: 4 Self-Leadership Shifts Before You Set Your Next Goals
Why plans fail
In my work as a high performance coach for women in business, I recognise how often even the best plans collapse, not because the goals are wrong but because the self-leadership piece is missing.
Every quarter, I see women who lead smart and live full lives launching themselves straight into planning mode, vision boards, colour-coded ClickUps, and a mile-long note in their phone that says: “This time, I’m serious.”
But what if your goals aren’t the issue?
What if it’s how you keep approaching them on autopilot, in overdrive, with just enough energy to plan… but not enough to actually stay with what matters when life gets full?
A great plan means nothing without a better way to actually lead yourself through it when things get messy.
So before you map out your next 90 days, I want to offer you 4 shifts that change how you move, not just what you aim for.
These are thought provoking questions worth sitting with if you’re serious about doing this quarter differently.
Shift 1: Decide what you're done carrying forward
Most people start planning by adding. What to achieve, what to launch, what to commit to.
That matters, but it’s not the full picture. Because real growth doesn’t just come from what you’re reaching for. It’s also about what you’re done dragging forward. The pattern that keeps repeating, the quiet override you call discipline, the pressure you think you need to perform…
Before you name your Q4 goals, ask yourself:
✍️ What pattern needs to end before this quarter can actually begin?
Because if you don’t clear it, you’ll build around it. Again.
Shift 2: Clear the noise
When your brain feels noisy and nothing sticks, it’s easy to blame your focus. But what if it’s not a focus issue at all? What if there’s just too much on?
Too many moving pieces.
Too many opinions on what you should be doing.
Too many moments you outsource your answers because you don’t have the margin to hear your own.
Before you reach for another plan or strategy, clear the space to think like you again. Ask yourself:
✍️ What would I delete, delay, or delegate if I was fully backing myself?
Not trying to please everyone. Not proving you can handle it all. Just choosing to finally have the bandwidth to hear yourself think.
Shift 3: Stop editing your voice to make it easier for others to hear
Let’s be honest, your authentic voice is there. It’s just buried under all the ways you’ve learned to tone it down.
You’ve spent years muting or managing it just to be more palatable, polished, or perfect
Do yourself a favour and… stop editing yourself! No more managing your tone. No more filtering your insight. No more making sure you’re “nice enough” to be heard. You’re not too much. So don't make yourself smaller to make others more comfortable.
OWN your brilliance.
So, before you map your next 90 days, ask:
✍️ What would shift if I showed up like I had nothing to prove… but everything to offer?
Imagine what it would feel like to finally say it like you mean it, without filtering, softening, or second-guessing what you already know!
Shift 4: Make the move you've been rehearsing in your head
There’s always that one thing…
The idea you circle back to.
The message you keep not sharing.
The offer you’ve outlined, tweaked, and quietly talked yourself out of.
✍️ If you didn’t need more confidence, clarity, or credentials, what’s the bold move you already know you’re meant to make this quarter?
Write it down. Give it a start date and deadline. DECIDE this is your moment and go for it!
Let’s move differently
Before you fill out another plan, to-do list or time block your calendar, block 20 minutes today to sit with these 4 questions.
And if you want support turning these shifts into how you actually lead, work, and show up inside a space that holds you when the week gets full:
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Let’s make this the quarter you don’t override yourself!
